ntu soci 3rd year x))
17th april 1987
5'7 tall
I don't tolerate incongruity
Music, Dancefloor makes me come alive
A world of self denial i live
embodiment of ice
YDesires.
canon ixus 970is or
fujifilm f100d
clothes
maintain GPA of 4.0 above
happiness
pretty skin
seeing my own grandma makes me apprehend what kind of ugly society we live in.
when she was much "younger", all her kids always go back for dinner almost everyday. most people will be saying its nothing wrong..filial..going back to see your own mother and spend time with her. how true is it? people just arrive in time for the meals and leave once they are done. she's the only one cooking, cleaning & washing.
her dearest kids also dump all their children under her care when they are off to work, holiday etc. she took care of almost 80% of my cousins.
now..what happened?
she's old. she can't walk properly. her brain no longer function well..maybe..senile to some extent.
imagine being brought to a funeral and she was there asking my dad and my uncle.. "why am i here?" when they tell her its her own brother's funeral..she cried.. but the moment she reached home.. she totally forget about what happened..
blessing in disguise? this..i'll never know..
and now her house is deserted 24/7 nobody ever visits her anymore. you have sons living so NEAR you yet no one bothers to buy her lunch/dinner. no one drops by talking to her. ingrateful people refuses to fork out $ for her hospital bills even. when they are so bloody...........driving BIG cars..living in BIG houses.
now without a choice we've to send her to an elderly daycare centre.. you know..to pass time? nobody volunteers to drive her to and fro.... her dearest son she doted the most..who lived just a 15min drive away..doesn't even bother much.
i really fear to grow old.
especially when you are no longer physically fit enough to take care of your ownself..
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relatives getting cancer is not a new thing to me anymore.
sparklethots
